Celebrate Random Acts of Kindness Week with Student Affairs February 13-17, 2012!

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Roadrunner Food Bank Donation Drive Extended

Thank you everyone who helped us celebrate Random Acts of Kindness Week in a big way! We have extended our food drive for the Roadrunner Food Bank for another week, so if you have been wanting to donate and hadn't done it yet, there's still time. Donations will be collected all week at the following Locations:

Centennial Engineering (Bldg. 112)
Children's Campus (Bldg. 277)
Dean of Students Office (Bldg. 85)
Health Sciences Library (Bldg. 234)
Law School Library (Bldg. 218)
Office of Student Affairs (Bldg. 10)
Student Health & Counseling (Bldg. 73)
Student Union Building on the Mall and Plaza levels (Bldg. 60)
Zimmerman Library (Bldg. 53)


Join us for several fun events this week:

  • Kindness picket
  • Daylight Safety walk

  • Flash Mob

  • Kindness goodies at various locations around campus

  • Information tables

  • Author Gary Beene, "The Seeds we Sow, Kindness that Fed a Hungry World."

  • Food drive to benefit the Roadrunner Food Bank

  • and much more!


Help save a life!

Donate blood at the ASUNM Community Experience Blood Drive

Feb. 14, 2012

10 a.m. to 4 p.m.

Student Union Building


Join the Women's Resource Center for events including:

The Vagina Monologues

February 18 at 7 p.m. and Feburary 19 at 2 p.m.

in Theater X

Basement of Popejoy Hall

Tickets are $8 for students and $12 general public

Proceeds will benefit the WRC Sabrina Single Mother's Scholarship


Roadrunner Food Bank Donation Drive

Roadrunner logoHelp us help New Mexico's hungry by making a donation to the Roadrunner Food Bank during our Random Acts of Kindness Week charity drive! 

They are in need of: boxed meals, canned entrees, canned fruit, canned meats, canned vegetables, cereal, macaroni and cheese, pasta, pasta sauces, peanut butter, jelly, rice, soup, and sugar.

Donations will be collected all week at the following Locations:

  • Centennial Engineering (Bldg. 112)
  • Children's Campus (Bldg. 277)
  • Dean of Students Office (Bldg. 85)
  • Health Sciences Library (Bldg. 234)
  • Law School Library (Bldg. 218)
  • Office of Student Affairs (Bldg. 10)
  • Student Health & Counseling (Bldg. 73)
  • Student Union Building on the Mall and Plaza levels (Bldg. 60)
  • Zimmerman Library (Bldg. 53)

or your can donate online at www.rrfb.org.

Please click here for a flyer regarding the Roadrunner Food Bank drive.



Random Acts of Kindness, Respect and Safety

by Kim Kloeppel, UNM Interim Dean of Students and Student Affairs Planning Officer

This year, Random Acts of Kindness Week will be celebrated February 13-17, and what better way to celebrate than by spreading kindness, respect and civility, while also focusing on safety!  Unfortunately, daily acts of kindness are not publicized but rather overshadowed by acts of violence, bullying and insensitivity.  Consequently these acts can lead to injuries, deaths and suicides as people seek recognition by copycatting these acts—thereby allowing the cycle of violence and insensitivity to continue. 

In order to place more emphasis on kindness, respect, civility, and safety, I am leading the charge to UNM students, faculty and staff to encourage each other to focus on positive behaviors and finding ways to demonstrate kindness, respect, and focus on safety. 

Being kind to each other isn't’t difficult or profound and doesn't’t take much extra time or money—it just takes awareness and conscious thought from all of us.  Some of the smallest acts of kindness:  sending a friend or co-worker a note of thanks, giving someone a compliment, volunteering at a shelter, holding the door open for someone, walking a neighbor’s dog, or giving up your seat for someone can go a long way.  And if you want to do more, a few extra dollars could treat a friend to a cup of coffee or a movie, or help your favorite charity, and departments can combine efforts for food or clothes drives. Be a role model and show others how easy this can be!

It always feels good when someone is nice TO you, but it feels even better when YOU are nice to others! In fact, there are many health benefits associated with being helpful and kind.  Being helpful can enhance your feeling of joyfulness, emotional resilience, optimism, self-worth, and vigor, and reduce your sense of isolation, helplessness, and depression. Let’s put up a fight to achieve kindness, respect, courteousness, and our focus on safety!  Be Kind and Pass it on to Others!

For more information, go to: http://studentaffairs.unm.edu/random-acts-of-kindness.html or http://www.randomactsofkindness.org/



25 Simple Random Acts of Kindness Ideas

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    1.    Send someone a hand written note of thanks.
    2.    Make a card at home and send it to a friend.
    3.    Adopt a stray animal.
    4.    Put some coins in another student’s parking meter.
    5.    Buy a coffee for a student or co-worker.
    6.    Walk your friend’s dog.
    7.    Give a compliment about your server to their manager.
    8.    Volunteer at a shelter.
    9.    Give Blood.
    10.  Mentor a child.
    11.  Treat a friend to a mid-week movies.
    12.  Give a huge tip to someone when they least expect it.
    13.  Hold the elevator door open for someone on the shuttle.
    14.  Give up your seat for someone.
    15.  Talk to a homeless person and have a “normal” conversation.
    16.  Pick up some trash around campus
    17.  Compliment a co-worker for their excellence.
    18.  Babysit for a friend.
    19.  Give another driver your parking spot.
    20.  Donate to charity.
    21.  Tell all your co-workers how much you appreciate them.
    22.  Buy an inspirational book for a friend.
    23.  Let someone go ahead of you in line at the SUB eateries.
    24.  Do something nice for yourself.
    25.  Smile a lot.


Health benefits of being kind

  • Numerous scientific studies show that acts of kindness result in significant health benefits, both physical and mental. Here are some key points:

  • Helping contributes to the maintenance of good health, and it can diminish the effect of diseases and disorders serious and minor, psychological and physical.
  •  A rush of euphoria, followed by a longer period of calm, after performing a kind act is often referred to as a “helper’s high,” involving physical sensations and the release of the body's natural painkillers, the endorphins. This initial rush is then followed by a longer-lasting period of improved emotional well-being.
  •  Stress-related health problems improve after performing kind acts. Helping reverses feelings of depression, supplies social contact, and decreases feelings of hostility and isolation that can cause stress, overeating, ulcers, etc. A drop in stress may, for some people, decrease the constriction within the lungs that leads to asthma attacks.
  •  Helping can enhance our feelings of joyfulness, emotional resilience, and vigor, and can reduce the unhealthy sense of isolation.
  •  A decrease in both the intensity and the awareness of physical pain can occur.
  •  The incidence of attitudes, eg, chronic hostility, that negatively arouse and damage the body, is reduced.
  •  The health benefits and sense of well-being return for hours or even days whenever the helping act is remembered.
  •  An increased sense of self-worth, greater happiness, and optimism, as well as a decrease in feelings of helplessness and depression, is achieved.
  •  Once we establish an “affiliative connection” with someone—a relationship of friendship, love, or some sort of positive bonding—we feel emotions that can strengthen the immune system.
  •  Adopting an altruistic lifestyle is a critical component of mental health.
  •  The practice of caring for strangers translates to immense immune and healing benefits.
  •  Regular club attendance, volunteering, entertaining, or faith group attendance is the happiness equivalent of getting a college degree or more than doubling your income.

Stories of Kindness

  • Last year a few of you shared your stories of kindness with us.  We would love to hear some more!  Please email your story to Dorene DiNaro at ddinaro@unm.edu and look for them on this page at a later date!
  • Paramedic Helps Patient in Need

    Submitted by Maril Loope

    I try to live by this rule as much as possible; what goes around, comes around. Leaving a nickel in the water bottle machine may help out the next person who is a nickel short, which we all know is a bummer.  My biggest random acts have come from medicine. I became an paramedic so I could help others in need, in their worst moments. Lying on a steel gurney is a scary place to be, when people cannot, or refuse, to see you.  One case sticks out from the others, in regards to this topic. During my ambulance time, I responded to a call in which a woman had hurt herself. Upon arriving on scene, I assessed the situation, and sent the crew to the hallway.  My patient and I talked; I encouraged her to clean the bleeding wounds she had, then I bandaged them for her. I rode to UNMH with the transporting crew - I knew that ride would be about the last 20 normal minutes she would have for a while.  We had a very easy going conversation, and when we arrived at the hospital, I stayed until she checked in. On the way out, she placed a hand on my shoulder, looked at me, and said thank you.  Pay it forward, the golden rule, whatever you want to call it. Those who are strong have an obligation to help the weak.

    A Pair of Gloves Makes a Big Difference

    Submitted by Jan Zerr

    I stopped at Circle K one morning to get a soda and overheard a gentleman talking to the cashier (and I eventually got involved in the conversation).  He said he stays at a shelter but they have to be out by a certain time each morning.  He said he was standing outside a business after leaving the shelter a few days earlier and a man came up and started talking to him.  He told the man about staying in the shelter and having to be out by a certain time each morning and that he didn't have gloves and his hands were so cold.  The man opened the store and told him to follow him and took him to where the gloves were.  He told him that he was the manager of the store and told him to pick out any pair he wanted.  He said he picked out a pair of gloves and his hands are now warm when he is out in the cold.  As we all talked he said how grateful he was to that manager.  A pair of gloves seem like such a small thing, but to that gentleman it was the nicest thing anyone had ever done for him. 

    Food Warms the Heart

    Submitted by Rachel Stone

    Stefanie Rotunno is a person in my office who is always willing to listen to my stories and give advice.  We were talking about cooking the other day, and I told her that I can NEVER get my pinto beans to turn out right.  They are either to bland or too firm; I had given up.  She then proclaimed that she makes THE best beans ever!  She briefly told me what she does to make her beans sublime and I made a mental note.  A couple of days later, Stefanie  brought me some of her fantastic beans!!!  And she was right, they were great!  What a nice thing to do because that afternoon, I did not need to wonder what to have for lunch.  Thank you, Stefanie!

  • Be Kind post-it noteClick the post-it note on the left  for thank you notes you can use to show your co-workers you appreciate them.